Anybody can just cross paths with a girl and say something stupid like: “Damn girl, you’re fine!” And anyone can select a generic compliment as: “Your smile is so pretty”; “You have beautiful eyes”; “Wow, your dress is amazing!” This is not the art of flattery. If you want to stand out in the crowd, take a few moments to observe, then approach and direct a compliment that is unique to her. I know, its scary guys, but it works! Maybe she’s wearing something totally unique, and you can see that she took time picking out her outfit. Maybe she really does have pretty stand out blue eyes and black hair, for instance -- or perhaps she moves her arm a certain way when she laughs. Alright, now your thinking you are going to be stocking her from across the room, but it only takes a minute to observe her uniqueness. The hard part is to approach her, but after you get a couple words out in exchange, you should have enough information to give her the right compliments.